The Doctor tells the tale.
"This young man couldn't look at me. He couldn't look me in the eye. He was ashamed of sharing how he was addicted to online pornography.
My conclusion with him was simple. He didn't have a tribe. He didn't have a community. There was no part of his life in which he felt he belonged. For him, the ultimate solution was joining a boxing club. It wasn't just the physical activity. It was the tribe he got. I remember he said to me, 'You know, before I joined the boxing club, if someone said to me do ten push-ups, I wouldn't do a single one, but in a boxing gym, 10 means 10.'”